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Angry Children: How To Help Them

When it comes to showing anger, adults do not hesitate to verbally express it but children have much different ways of dealing with anger. Here are some obvious signs that your child may need help and what to do to help them.


Kids are normally forthcoming with regards to sharing feelings and emotions. While your child may be burdened with feelings of pain and guilt, you will never learn it from a conversation without knowing how to steer the conversation with the right questions. However, you can know a child's real feelings because they are usually displayed in their visible behavior.


When a child is sad they may keep to themselves or have little to say. When a child feels guilty they may avoid people and stay in their room. When a child is angry they may break their toys, scream or throw a tantrum. Children are not always verbal about their emotions but their actions often speak louder than words.


When kids show signs of anger, bursting into fits or rage and rolling around the floor in tantrums, this is a sign that there is a problem that cannot be ignored. This should tell you that your child needs help that you, as a parent, can give even though you may be the target of the anger. Left untreated, this problem could evolve into a mountain of difficulty in the future.


If you are worried about a child with behavioral trouble regarding anger, professional anger management tolls are available and can be effective in dealing with a child's problems with anger. Finding the best program or person to help will require some research and experimenting. Many different resources provide tips about anger management for kids. There are books, movies and plenty of helpful information provided by sites on the Internet.


Helping a child deal with their emotions will involve special programs geared toward kids because a child will not benefit from adult anger management programs, nor will they benefit from taking an adult anger management course. These programs are just too mature for children. Their minds are not mature enough to openly talk about their feelings. In fact, they may not understand what's happening and blame themselves for the problem.


As a rule, even a professional counselor will not expect a child to open up and tell them the exact emotion which is making them angry. These are details which must be discovered through a series of activities regarding anger management for kids.


Kids respond best to activities. Activities involving games are smart tools to use to help the child display the real reasons behind their anger. Activities will teach them positive values and show them acceptable behavior traits through various games. Activities are much more effective than a one-on-one session with an anger management counselor. Providing them with worksheets, coloring pages, puzzles and quizzes makes anger management for kids more interesting and enjoyable. In this way, children actually participate in a program that helps them without actually realizing it.


Anger management is also a hard concept to explain to small children because they are unaware of their exact feelings and they are not equipped to think quickly and rationalize their decisions. You cannot talk a child out of being angry by trying to treat them as having adult reasoning skills. That will just frustrate your child and, perhaps, make them feel even more inadequate. This is why activities, which are fun and do not require logical thinking, work best.


Teaching your child anger management skills now is essential to prevent them from becoming difficult adults, something that could negatively affect how they interact in the world and, thus, negatively impact their personal and financial future. A child needs to learn how to behave appropriately in different situations. The must know that it is perfectly fine to be upset but they must also understand that their anger should not be used in a negative way. When they become adults they will use these skills to be happier and well balanced.


Teaching kids anger management skills early in life will provide building blocks for their future. Through repetitious activities and practices, kids will eventually learn how to manage their anger. The upside is a more balanced child who grows into a more balanced adult and, for you, the upside is a much more peaceful home.


One final note: If you, the parent, suffer from outbursts of anger, your child is taking a cue from you so, perhaps, you too need to seek resources that can help you manage your anger. (Jim DeSantis)

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Natural Cosmetics Product Review

How to distinguish natural cosmetics from synthetic cosmetics?

Aside from reading product labels and knowing how to understand and decipher them. Learn how to perform your own product testing and review. Too difficult? Don’t fret, it is not that complicated. You do this every time you choose wholesome food at the grocery store. Surely, you read product labels to purchase the freshest, most natural, food? You analyze, consistency, feel, texture, smell, and taste. Subsequently, tasting it will assure you, whether your purchase was worth it. How does your stomach feel? Did you feel tired and bloated? All of these questions will determine future purchases. You see, who needs to be a chemist or cook to answer these questions?

How can we apply this to cosmetics?

We can use this same deductive reasoning when it comes to purchasing cosmetics. As a wise consumer, examine closely the product label as well as the ingredients. Do the promises seem too good to be true? Does the product promise to eradicate wrinkles. What ingredient will do this? Also consider this, if the ingredient is so miraculous, then why could you not purchase this ingredient by itself and get the same results? You would be paying far less money. With this type of deductive reasoning, question each ingredient as to why it is included in the product. Beware of hype!

What is the shelf life of the product?

How long will the product remain fresh? Most products, even natural cosmetics, can’t last for very long. However, if they are loaded with preservatives, they can theoretically last for many years. This is because preservatives release a chemical called Formaldehyde. This substance is so strong that mortuaries use it to retard the putrification of corpses. Why would anyone use a cosmetic that contains embalming fluid? Therefore, beware of Propylparabens, Ethylparabens, and Butylparabens. Even a little bit of these chemicals on the skin can cause serious kidney and liver damage!

What kind of emollients should be used?

Have you noticed the greasy coating on fruits and vegetables at the supermarket? Have you ever tried to rinse it off? Next to impossible! Do you know what this coating is? It is mineral oil, or Vaseline. It is a byproduct of gasoline production. It keeps water from evaporating from fruits and vegetables. This coating increaes their shelf life. Also, it makes them look shinier and more appealing for increased sales. Most consumers have become so accustomed to it that they no longer question it. However, would you substitute baby oil for corn oil in your salad dressing? Or make your mayonaise from Vaseline? Repulsive, you say? They are not meant to be used on humans? Well, the cosmetic industry uses these very same oils as emollients. It clogs pores, does not wash away. So it rides on top of the skin, sealing it, making you think that your skin is moisturized. But this is dangerous. This is why fish and wildlife suffer and die slowly when oil tankers spill petroleum. Skin does not breathe when skin is encapsulated like this. Actually, it is like wrapping your skin with cellophane. Neither your skin breathes well, nor does it perspire.

How natural cosmetics feel?

Completely natural oils function differently on the skin than petroleum. The human body has an affinity for natural substances. They are instantly recognized by the body as something similar, and therefore slowly metabolized. That is why after a few hours a natural moisturizer will be completely absorbed by the skin and assimilated. When you begin to first use a completely natural product you will wonder why it feels like it has dissipated so quickly. In actuality, it has not disappeared, but rather it has soaked into the lower skin stratum. It will actually take quite a few repeated applications for your thirsty skin to slow down the process of lapping it up. With time you will see a marginalizing of wrinkles, a reduction of over-production of sebum, and a more even skin tone. This wonderful progress should not be interrupted by the use of something synthetic. Why, this will actually confuse the skin. It would be like eating a healthy meal,and interrupting it by eating a Twinkyl. This would certainly give you a stomach ache and the body would not be able to properly digest the wholesome food.

How to do the cuticle test.

A very effective way to test a cosmetic is by applying it to cracked and dried cuticles. Because this area of the body is so thin and sensitive, it will show you how your face will react to this product. Also, it will safeguard your face from a bad reaction to the product. At the cosmetics counter, put some cream on your cuticle and spend some time shopping in another area of the store. This will help save you from unwittingly bringing the product home. Also it will save you time and money.. If you feel a stinging sensation, similar to what you would feel from lemon juice poured on a paper cut, then this product will cause skin sensitivity. On the other hand, if you feel no stinging, but rather a soothing feeling, you can be assured that this product will welcomed by your skin. By this simple test, you will be able to quickly eliminate the majority of products which will sooner or later cause a bad reaction to your skin. (Xavier Roget)